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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Keep 'em coming

Strong work, Silk, on the gypsy blog post. Yes, the spinning is at Fit. Let's do it.

Have been having some very. serious. discussions. lately w/ the spouse. having a baby is stressful, yo! but that cutie is sitting right here, next to me, going crazy with a pillow and a toy...he is pure happiness. almost time for some cereal and beets. maybe some daal. we're going crazy indian on his food training.

so, a question. this may be better suited for an email, but since there are only a few readers of the blog...when you are in a serious, committed relationship (call it marriage, call it whatever, but you are in it for the long haul), what do you do when one of you changes their mind about a not-so-insignificant decision and the other one will not budge or compromise on the decision? does this question make sense? if yes, please give me your advice. i need it.

in other news, baby taj is rolling all over the place and i swear to god he did a mini crawl yesterday. i am so not ready for him to be mobile. he visited his cousin scotch yesterday and was so completely entranced and excited by this encounter, we may have to get a dog. the things i will do for this baby.

well, off to clean up before friend #1 stops by for a (hopefully) quick visit--reminds me of an upcoming blog post and poll for our readers: how do you stop being friends with someone?
later today we have some baking and then friend #2 is coming over for dinner. she will be bringing her baby, who is exactly 2 months younger, yet 2 pounds and 1 inch bigger, than baby taj. he's a cutie, though. makes me laugh when people tell me that i have a big baby (which they do, a lot). i just think to myself, well, you should see this other baby! he's ginormous!

peace out bloggers. don't forget to give me your feedback and marital advice.

3 Comments:

Blogger Silk E. said...

this sounds like it's about reproducing again - am i right? regardless, all i can think of to contribute at the moment is that you simply work it out. A broad and general statement, the specifics will depend completely upon the situation and the 2 people involved. Open communication is of the essence. When that gets you nowhere, walk away and re visit the issue later. Honesty tends to be the best policy, but no one wants to be a straight up mean bitch (i acknowledge this regularly as my partner is one sensitive lady, i mean dude.)

3:49 PM

 
Blogger vikki said...

i think this may be my favorite post of yours so far. email to follow.

8:53 PM

 
Blogger MedusaJ said...

I have been a slacker on the west five two. But continue to read and enjoy your posts. I can't help on the relationship advice other than never get freakin married, but it's too late for that. Everything works itself out one way or another. In terms of defriending, depends on the reason.
MJ

11:18 PM

 

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